Inner beauty counts most
As we grow older, we become more conscious of our physical appearance and our mode of dressing, especially with the numerous advertisements on TV and newspapers that put premium on the young and the slim. Hence, when unsavory remarks are thrown our way our day is ruined.
It is in this perspective that I would like to share with you the story of Joan Clayton in the book, What Matters Most For Women: "Aren’t you the Mrs. Clayton who used to teach first grade?” I didn’t remember the woman’s face, but I politely replied, “Yes.” “Well, I didn’t recognize you at first, but that was a long time ago – and time sure doesn’t stand still.” Now, I had two choices. That statement could ruin my day or I could keep my joy. I tried to laugh it off and smooth things over with the lady, but I was having trouble continuing the conversation. So to keep my cool, I walked away with “ see ya.”
"I tried to push the comment out of my mind. Each time I thought about it, rejection tried to rule the day. When I told my husband about the incident, he hugged me tight, “To me, you’re the most beautiful woman in the world.”
"When I read the Bible that night, it just so happened I read Psalm 45. I came to verse 11: “So shall the king greatly desire thy beauty; for he is thy Lord; and worship thou him. “ …What else could I ever want? The Lord thinks I’m beautiful, so what do I care if someone thinks I’ve aged. The Lord loves me just like I am. Right then I shouted, “Thank You, Lord! No one stays young-looking forever. Everyone ages. And each stage of life has its unique beauty. God sees the heart, and that makes all the difference.”
I am reminded of what my eldest son, Saldy said when I told him that his cousin didn’t appreciate much his recent girlfriend because she is fat. He said, “Beauty and fame fade with the passing of time. What is important is the inner beauty – the character of the person.”
It is in this viewpoint that the “www. anemistyle.com” points out some ways on how to develop inner beauty.
Smile. It is viewed across cultures as a sign of friendliness, especially when greeting someone. Why not take it a step further and show some teeth. It is disarming and makes people subconsciously open. People can spot a fake smile and that can quickly make them distrust you. So please smile and mean it.
Be confident. Being confident is not about thinking too highly of yourself but agreeing with the inner voice that tells you are beautiful, special and you enrich the lives of people around you.
Be kind. Here are some synonyms that describe the word kind: friendly, generous, warm-hearted nature, understanding, charitable, considerate, forbearing, and tolerant. Can you use any of these words to describe yourself? If yes, good on you, and if not get to work and you will realize that kindness opens doors quickly than you think.
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