The importance of forgiveness

CEBU, Philippines - Is there anyone in your life whom you need to forgive?

Forgiveness is something I find myself struggling with, but God calls us to forgive just as He has forgiven us. Sometimes, it can be really hard to forgive and that is when we should go to God in prayer to help us. Meditating on the following verses can help you learn how to forgive.

Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as Christ God forgave you.”

It can be easier to forgive someone when we think of how God forgave all of us for our sins.

Matthew 18:21-22 – “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.’”

Jesus calls us to forgive over and over again.

Matthew 5:23-34 – “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

This verse shows how important it is to God that we settle conflicts and forgive others. It should be one of our priorities. If there is a certain person you need to forgive, it is important to talk to him or her. Recently, I had a talk with my friend about something she did that I needed to forgive her for, things between us became well again.

There is freedom when we forgive others. Holding a grudge is not worth the energy. Make it a point today to work on forgiving whoever you may need to forgive. (www.theodysseyonline.com)