March 3, 2008

Today’s plucky Aries moon inspires bold strokes of confidence, especially among the movers and shakers in our world. Hesitate? Why wait? Asking for anyone’s permission would only check our enthusiasm. When our natural impulse is discovering the courage to reach, we do. And the future suddenly appears within our grasp.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You have what you need. Once you realize this, you don’t have to scrape, strive or scratch to get more. If you still think you need more, go though your closets and look under your bed and in your heart.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). When you deserve better and you know it, make a fuss! If you don’t, people around you think you don’t care. By standing up for yourself, you give others permission to do the same.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). You may find yourself longing for the attention of a certain someone. The most attractive thing you can do is to let go of the need to be right. Your errors are endearing and relatable.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). If only people would do what they said they would do in the first place. Then you wouldn’t have to charm (or threaten) them so. The saving grace is that you actually have some fun with this drama.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Your actions reflect where you live, both metaphorically and actually. Improve your home. You don’t have to be rich to turn your home into a beautiful masterpiece. All you have to be is creative, which of course you are.

TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (March 3). You make an irresistible first impression this month. Hearts are lost to you. March is turbocharged, and it’s all you can do to keep up with friends during all the non-stop excitement. Take a break in April to regroup. Catch up and renew your social ties. In June, loved ones give you new things to look forward to. You hit it off with Cancer and Gemini. Your lucky numbers are: 22, 4, 19, 38 and 18.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). There’s not time to hesitate or doubt – you’re too busy doing something that’s good for your mind, body and spirit. No, not yoga. Rather, it’s the mental discipline of believing the best in each situation.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). You’re sympathetic to the striving people who are trying too hard to impress you. We’ve all been there before – caring a little too much what someone thinks of you. All in all, it’s pretty flattering.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). When there’s a challenge to be conquered, you’re sometimes too focused on the task to notice there’s a shortcut. Take many breaks from work today for the sake of gaining a wider perspective.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). You are the Minister of Hidden Needs. Your willingness to question deeply into situations makes you so much more effective than if you had tried to solve the outside problem, which is usually merely a symptom.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Be open to help from unexpected sources. Because the way you think things will unfold is not the way they actually will. And when you’re open, you’ll be delighted at the majesty of this process.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You’re convinced Cupid is taking an extended vacation. If that’s the case, then it’s time for you to pick up the slack. Create romantic opportunities for yourself. Example: a moonlight date at a dark cafe.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). When you present your ideas, you may not get the response you were hoping for, but be assured, this was a positive step. Accept that your project is a work in process and you’re definitely on the right track.

ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS:  “My guy and I have been together for about a year, and my family and friends both hate him. I have very strong feelings for him but wonder if we have a bright future ahead of us and if we are compatible. My birthday is Sept. 5, 1984, and he was born Jan. 21, 1977. What do the stars say?”

I would consider the judgment of your family and friends very carefully. Specifically, what do they not like about him? If it has anything to do with mistreating you, take their advice to heart. It looks like he may have issues involving anger and rage and would benefit from learning how to control his strong emotions. I can see that you‘re sympathetic toward him in ways that others aren’t, and he relies on your support. But understand that your unconditional support may also keep him from taking responsibility for changing his bad behavior. Virgo women have an innate sensitivity and desire to help, yet it’s also easy to confuse helping someone with love. Virgos also have strong boundaries, so if he’s crossing a line with you, let him know.