How to avoid losing your child in a crowd
CEBU, Philippines — Losing your child in a crowd is an awful feeling, and one that every parent dreads. Imagine turning to your child – in a shop, park, airport or fun fair – only to find he isn’t there. It’s a stomach-churning thought. It’s almost always as simple as the kid having wandered off somewhere more interesting, but it can be a frightening experience for both of you.
As young children get more confident or curious, they are more likely to go off exploring. With a few simple rules in place, they will soon learn that unplanned time away from Mom or Dad can be upsetting for everyone and is best avoided.
1. Talk about crowds.
Before you go to a crowded place like the shopping mall or the Sinulog grand parade, talk to your children about how it will be very busy and that it is important that they stay near you at all times so you don’t lose each other.
Ask that they hold onto the pram or your hand. Explain that it will be harder for you to find each other with so many other people about. Reassure them that if you do get separated you will be looking for them.
2. Don’t panic.
Teach your children not to panic when they can’t find you. You will usually be close by. Tell them to stay where they are and call out for you. Older children could call your name rather than shouting “Mommy!” so you know they mean you.
You shouldn’t panic either, but go to the last place you saw your child and then widen your search from there.
3. Be prepared.
When your child is old enough, make sure they know their name and your phone number. For younger children, you could write all your contact details on a piece of paper and put in in your child’s pocket.
Dress your child in bright colors, so he’s easy to spot in a crowd.
Carry a recent photo of the child, make a mental note of what he was wearing or snap a quick photo of him with your phone before you set out, so you can give visual clues to those helping in the search.
Arrange a meeting place with older children should they get lost – the swings, the information booth or the fountain in the shopping mall. (www.nowtolove.com.au)
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