Reasons for respecting others

CEBU, Philippines — Respect is what makes society run smoothly. Respect for fellow humans is necessary for having order and peace. Yet differing ways of viewing things often cause respect for one another to be compromised, as everyone insist that their view is the right one.

It’s normal that we won’t always desire to respect others. There are times when our siblings, friends and classmates don’t deserve our respect – but we have to give it to them anyway. Here are five reasons to respect those around us, even when we don’t feel like doing so:

God expects it. Romans 12:10 says: “Outdo one another in showing honor.” God expects us to honor one another with the love and grace He has shown us. But when we forget how much grace we’ve received, we start questioning how respectful we really need to be. We become more concerned with our own rights and privileges than God’s command that we honor the people He’s put in our lives.

Respect multiplies. The beauty of doing hard things for God is the blessing that follows. When we sow respect into the lives around us, those seeds are not fruitless. Respect multiplies!

When you respect someone who doesn’t deserve it, you give value to them. Many people are not used to being treated with honor that they return the favor. Some of the most hardened people may blossom when given undeserved respect – this is the nature of grace!

Everyone is an image-bearer. Author C. S. Lewis pointed out that everyone we interact with is an “immortal soul.” That’s an incredible thought! Everyone we meet is created in the image of God. Even the rudest cashier, the most grumpy coworker or the most difficult parent is an image-bearer. As fellow creations of God, we need to recognize the innate value in others – even when that honor is unrequited.

Your respect is your testimony. At the end of the day, people don’t notice whether you go to church or don’t obey your parents and swear. They remember how you made them feel. If you treat someone with honor and respect – especially when they know they didn’t deserve it – that respect is your testimony! It tells them there is something different about you. You didn’t seek revenge or justice; you gave them respect. You listened. That small step is a seed planted in their heart.

Respect builds trust. Respect builds bridges. It brings people to a place of trust. By respecting others, you’re showing them that they have value. This grace draws them to you, which grants you an opportunity to share your view of things and even your faith.

Though it is difficult to respect others at times, remember that you’re doing it to honor God – because every one of us is created in His image. When you choose respect, God smiles. He sees, even if no one else does. (www.projectinspired.com)