Cell phone etiquette for kids

CEBU, Philippines - Nowadays that even small kids already carry their own cell phones, it is important to know how to use the gadget not only responsibly but also politely. It is important for children to know the ground rules for using cell phones.

Children should know that using cell phones  does not belong in certain places or occasions:

• Not in libraries, movies, elevators, museums, cemeteries, theaters, dentist or doctor waiting rooms, places of worship, auditoriums, hospital emergency rooms, or public transportation.

• Never during meetings or in restaurants.

• No annoying ring tones.

• Never when shopping, banking, waiting in line, or when conducting other personal business.

• Never when driving.

• Never within less than 10 feet from others present.

Regarding social or family situations, kids should discuss with their parents on the following:

• When should an incoming call take priority over the situation at hand?

• What if someone taking a call is just trying to impress others?

• Would it be okay to let incoming calls interrupt conversations regarding values, discipline, or when reviewing the family calendar?

It’s important for children to know that when a person steps out of a social or familial situation to use a mobile phone, they keep themselves from experiencing the moment; cell phones can become a constant distraction. If everyone had unrestrained use of their cell phones – think of the chaos during dinners, birthday parties, holiday celebrations, or when watching a movie together.

With voice messaging, there’s no need to take every call or even to check to see who called.

And children should excuse himself or herself to make a call. When anticipating an important call, they should warn the people they’re with that an important call will be coming in and, therefore, will need to step away to receive it.

It is also good if the family can together develop cell phone etiquette for inside the home. It may be necessary to establish “quiet zones” and “phone-free” areas and times. (Reference: www.parents.com)